original
Should: Is it just a word?
I have been on a recent quest to completely eliminate the word “should” from my vocabulary. And I would like to explain why.
As defined by the dictionary, should means: must; ought (used to indicate duty, propriety, or expediency).
Should places blame and guilt, no matter what.
Regarding Self-Harm
While I was going through posts that were tagged “happy” I can across a picture of self-harm, and how bleeding so much was creating a moment of happiness. And I wanted to say that I was not disturbed. I was not angry. I was not judgmental. Instead, I was deeply saddened. Sad that causing one’s own pain was a source of happiness. And I want you all to know that I love you all. And I know that there are a lot of troubled individuals on tumblr who struggle with various things, like we all do. But I want you all to know that if you ever have the urge to self harm, purge, anything where infliction is involved, I AM HERE FOR YOU. Please. I just want the opportunity to help, to heal, to soothe souls…
Figure out your Personality Type! ↘
I’m ESFJ/ENFJ/ENFP. Yes, a blend of all three. Though mostly the latter two.
In 17 days, I will be married!
On December 31st at 2 pm, I will be walking towards the alter to my fiancé. There we will exchange vows to become husband and wife. Then we will join our family and friends in celebration of the perfect ending to 2011 and the perfect beginning to 2012. And I will be happy. And I want to share that joy with all of you.
Love is possible, true love exists. But please know that there is no easy love, no easy relationship. Everything worth having is worth fighting for. And that is exactly what my fiancé and I have down for the past 5 years, and will continue to do until the day we pass. Love is beautiful, but it is also something that requires a lot of care and tending to. Neglect it, and it will neglect you. But put in the tears and the sweat, and you will have something even better than you could have imagined: your soulmate, the one who completes you, your everything, the reason you continue when you feel no energy to… and so much more.
Yours Truly,
—SPREADhappyness
Of my 3 blogs, this is the least neglected!
and it’s because i have all 985 of you beautiful tumblrs keeping me at it and reminding me that it is a joyous day and life, and we should remind ourselves daily. :D
Much love,
—SPREADhappyness
We live in a society where it is okay to belittle ourselves and others.
maybe instead, we could live in a society that strengthens and uplifts demoralized individuals… how about supporting each other. and yes, that includes you.
You are the key to strengthening your own self image, your own confidence, your own world.
do not let others tear you down, even when that person resides in your head. remind yourself, force yourself to stay positive, to stay aware, to live.
much love to all
—SPREADhappyness
Welcome to our humble abode!
To the new and old, alike:
May you feel the feelings of warmth and joy that penetrate my heart from spreading the simple laughs and the smiles, the kindness and all the happyness.
—SPREADhappyness
Tell me one dream you have…
I know you have many, but just one will suffice, unless you desire to tell me more. I will gladly accept any and all. Tell me here!
Much love,
— SPREADhappyness
Good morning! May you have a fantastic ending to your week and an even better beginning to your weekend!
Much love, always,
-SPREADhappyness
