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 | designedformurder : aw! I like that you reblogged the pictures of me and my girlfriend on this website, especially since this is such a happy website. thank you <3! |
i do love me some happy pics! especially when they are real! :D | |
 | you-are-a-masterpiece-deactivat : Hello! I am also a prorecovery/happy blog and would like to be added in your LINKS 2 + Places tab. Thank you. Happy holidays and you are so very beautiful |
No problem! Going to do it right now! :D Check it out guys and gals :) | |
Anonymous asked: hello! first off, i just want to thank you for having such a positive blog :) but i also need some advice. i lost alot of weight recently, and im at a really good weight, but i still cant get past all of my imperfections. I want to love myself again. do you have any ideas of things i can do to make me feel more confident? <3
Here’s what I suggest you do:
- Get a notebook
- Title it “I am beautiful”
- Every morning look at yourself in the mirror (make sure you can see your entire body)
- Write down two positive traits or things you like about yourself that day.
- So, write down one positive physical trait and one positive personality trait you possess. For example: I like how my hair looks today and I’m a nice person.
- Then every morning before you go to school or work or what not read the entire list aloud as you look at yourself in the mirror.
- Always end with “I am beautiful” because it’s the truth, I promise you. <3
 | Anonymous : They are selling personalized shirts.. Souvenir items. Etc etc.. :) the sellers want TITS as the acronym of their business. |
To Inheirit The Stuff Too Impressive Too Steal The Inspiring Tee Shirt (or Store) —personally I really like the second one… Sorry for the delay. Much love, —SPREADhappyness | |
| Anonymous : Hello Ma'am. I just wanna ask if you can suggest an acronym for TITS. My boyfriend's sister is planning to have a business for giveaways, souvenir items, personalized shirts and many more. :) Hope you can help me. Thanks in advance. |
Hello fellow tumblr-er! Well, I would love to aid you, but I’m not sure what you are asking, because TITS is already an acronym…. | |
| Anonymous : He said that he must focus on their business and family but now I discover that he already have someone new. when iasked him, he said he is not serious about what he is doing for that girl. Help me. How can I move on with my life. |
Hello there. I hope that you feeling okay and not taking this too hard. I know it’s very difficult when you have someone in your life for a while and then all of a sudden they are not anymore. But time will help you, as well as taking time for yourself. Ultimately, look at this as an opportunity to take care of yourself, to explore, to expand your knowledge, to recreate and strengthen your own identity. Try not to dwell on the past, for you are no longer there. Instead, focus on your present. Hope this helps some. Much love, —SPREADhappyness | |
| Anonymous : Hello there :) I'm glad and very excited to tell you that we're okay now. Okay -- as friends. close friends. Everything you said in your last advice were true. We talked about it and his explanation are the same as your advice. :) We're up to our next level of maturity. If we are destined to be with each other, it will happen. Maybe not now.. but someday. Thank you so much. :D |
I’m so happy to know that you two are doing well now and that my advice has helped you as well. Best of wishes. —SPREADhappyness | |
| Anonymous : We've been together for 32 months already and broke up the same day we turned 32. :( I don't know what obligations but I think those are the things like dating, spending a day with me.. etc etc. Thank you for your answer. I am crying now thinking that we lost each other. I love him so much. I really do. I'm afraid that someday he will meet someone who can love him more than I do. |
It’s okay to cry. It’s natural. Im sorry that you two broke up, but if it’s meant to be it will happen. My fiancée and I have gone back and forth between being together and not being together. But we both loved each other that it was able to overcome all odds. Love is the most powerful thing. And I’m sure he will not find anyone else who could love him more. You two were together for a long time and that means a great deal. I’m sure that you two will cross paths again. It is not the end of the world. And it very well could not be the last time that he is in your life. But the main thing isto be willing to let the one you love know how you feel, and if he is still set on what he needs to do then let him go. I’m sorry but break ups are hard and very painful. But without the bad, we would truly never know the beauty and good… Like my favorite quote goes…. The bad make the good great… Much love and I’m truly sorry. | |
| Anonymous : PART 2 -- Then he broke up with me. He said that he will fix himself first then eventually, if that will happen, he will fix our relationship. I don't know if I will wait for him. But he said that we still should communicate and help each other. I hope I can handle this stress coming in my life. |
Alright, so like I was saying… I think that there are things that you cannot change and the decisions that others make is one of those. I mean, that in all honesty, it’s great that he realized that he needs to work on him (it’s very mature). And in all honesty, a person cannot be in a healthy relationship unless they are ready and happy with themselves first. So it seems that he is not quite there yet. And there is no harm in that. Everyone is different. But as for you, I know that it is EXTREMELY hard to just sit back and wait. And you do not have any obligation to do that. You are free to take care of yourself and your needs. But with that said, as long as you two had a clean break up, there is nothing wrong with you two still talking and keeping in touch. However, I would advise to talk only when you two are completely over each other (otherwise you get a messy, one sided relationship). I know that you can handle this and everything else that comes your way. I, personally, believe that EVERYTHING happens for a reason. And as such, this too has happened for a reason and you will learn and grow from this. I am always here for you and all others. Thank you for confiding in me. Much Love, —SPREADhappyness | |
| Anonymous : PART 1 -- Hello. This is not my first time to ask you about things in life. My boyfriend is telling me that he loves me but I am confused because based on my observations - the way we talk and communicate with each other.. it's the other way around. We're like this for a week already. Then, I beg him to talk about our relationship. We talked. He told me that he doesn't know how to start. He even said that he is shy because he can't perform his obligations to me as my boyfriend. |
Hello there beautiful! Well, to begin have you two been dating long? And what kind of obligations are we talking about? Besides those two questions, I honestly think that you cannot force anything on another person. I have learned that there are things in this life that you cannot control (and there are many!)… to be continued… | |
| Anonymous : Before I die,I want to experience true love. |
I know you will. But I don’t want you to think that true love is what you see in movies and hear about in fairy tales. Rather, I believe that it is something that is deeply felt and cherished. It grows from a mutual respect and constant desire to compromise and listen. The love is true when you both are willing to work things out no matter what, because the other is worth the time and effort. Things don’t come easy, and love is no exception. The spark and passion may be there, but it won’t be true love unless you are both willing to put in the effort to keep the relationship alive and healthy. And I believe that communication is the key. I say all this from personal experience. I have my true love, and he has me… but we constantly are working at. It’s not easy, but he’s worth every bit of frustration and anger. Because I love him, and I know he loves me. And we are getting married on December 31st. —SPREADhappyness | |
